diff --git a/src/servers/sidecar/claude/claude-manager.ts b/src/servers/sidecar/claude/claude-manager.ts
index 49f5b5e7..1bf2126c 100644
--- a/src/servers/sidecar/claude/claude-manager.ts
+++ b/src/servers/sidecar/claude/claude-manager.ts
@@ -1091,7 +1091,31 @@ function settleAllQuestions(session: PersistentSession, reason: string): void {
 export function answerClaudeQuestion(sessionKey: string, userId: number, toolCallId: string, answer: string): boolean {
   const session = ownedSession(sessionKey, userId);
   const pending = session?.pendingQuestions.get(toolCallId);
-  if (!session || !pending) return false;
+
+  // ── A dropped answer has to SAY it was dropped ──
+  //
+  // Every failure on this path used to be silent: the caller discards the boolean, `sendFire` does
+  // nothing when no sidecar is connected, and this returns undefined for both "no such session" and
+  // "not yours". So from the person's side a lost answer and a slow agent are the same thing — a card
+  // that does not change — and the only move left is to send another message. Reported exactly that way.
+  //
+  // The receipt for a GOOD answer is deliberately the tool:result in the durable log, so that a second
+  // pane sees it too. A failure gets the same treatment for the same reason: an error into the session
+  // log reaches every socket watching, rather than confirming to the one browser that clicked.
+  if (!session) {
+    console.warn(`[claude:question:${sessionKey}] answer for a session this process does not hold`);
+    return false;
+  }
+  if (!pending) {
+    console.warn(`[claude:question:${sessionKey}] answer for ${toolCallId}, which is no longer waiting`);
+    session.emit({
+      type: 'error',
+      message:
+        'That answer arrived too late — the question had already been given up on, and the agent has ' +
+        'moved on. Send it as a message instead.',
+    });
+    return false;
+  }
   clearTimeout(pending.timer);
   session.pendingQuestions.delete(toolCallId);
   // The turn resumes now, so silence stops being legitimate and the watchdog goes back on. `armStall`
diff --git a/src/servers/sidecar/claude/user-instance.ts b/src/servers/sidecar/claude/user-instance.ts
index 8fe97967..96881020 100644
--- a/src/servers/sidecar/claude/user-instance.ts
+++ b/src/servers/sidecar/claude/user-instance.ts
@@ -321,6 +321,8 @@ async function handleCommand(cmd: SidecarCommand, reply: ReplyFn) {
     // the plan commands above, one layer deeper: what the user needs to see is the question's own card
     // filling in, and that arrives as the `tool:result` this unblocks.
     case 'claude:question-answer':
+      // The boolean was discarded here, which is how a dropped answer became invisible. It reports its
+      // own reason now — this only has to stop throwing it away.
       claudeManager.answerClaudeQuestion(cmd.sessionKey, cmd.userId, cmd.toolCallId, cmd.answer);
       break;
 
diff --git a/src/workspaces/officerdev/src/apps/Chat/components/QuestionActivity.tsx b/src/workspaces/officerdev/src/apps/Chat/components/QuestionActivity.tsx
index fdb9777c..19423b4b 100644
--- a/src/workspaces/officerdev/src/apps/Chat/components/QuestionActivity.tsx
+++ b/src/workspaces/officerdev/src/apps/Chat/components/QuestionActivity.tsx
@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 import { useState } from 'react';
-import { MessageCircleQuestion, Check } from 'lucide-react';
+import { MessageCircleQuestion, Check, Loader2 } from 'lucide-react';
 import type { ChatMessage } from '../types';
 
 type ToolMessage = Extract<ChatMessage, { role: 'tool' }>;
@@ -113,8 +113,28 @@ export const QuestionActivity = ({ message, onAnswer }: QuestionActivityProps) =
     });
   };
 
+  /*
+    Answered, and the agent has not spoken yet.
+
+    `sent` is local and optimistic; `message.output` is the tool result, which only arrives once the
+    harness has taken the answer and produced something. Between the two there is a real gap — the agent
+    may be thinking for a while — and until now nothing filled it: the card simply went read-only, which
+    looks exactly like a card that TIMED OUT. Reported as "I answer and it does not react, so I send
+    another message".
+
+    Saying so costs one line and removes the ambiguity: an answered card now looks different from an
+    abandoned one, without pretending to know when the agent will speak.
+  */
+  const awaitingAgent = sent && message.output === undefined;
+
   return (
     <div className="my-1 space-y-3">
+      {awaitingAgent && (
+        <div className="flex items-center gap-2 px-1 text-xs text-muted-foreground">
+          <Loader2 className="h-3 w-3 animate-spin" />
+          <span>Answer sent — waiting for the agent</span>
+        </div>
+      )}
       {questions.map((q, qi) => {
         const multi = isMulti(q);
         const answer = answers[qi];