a command dropped for want of a sidecar has to say so

`sendFire` looked up a sidecar, and if none was registered it did nothing.
No log, no error, no return value — the command simply stopped existing. That
window is real and entirely predictable: every `pm2 restart officer` has one
while the sidecars reconnect, and somebody clicking a button has no idea they
are in it.

The cost landed hardest on answering a question. `answerClaudeQuestion` in the
agent documents this exact failure in a careful comment and cannot report it,
because the command never arrives to be reported. So the question card kept
spinning, which from the person's side is indistinguishable from a slow agent,
and the only move left is to send another message — the worst possible thing to
do to a waiting tool call. Observed tonight, on a restart I ran myself while a
commander was mid-question.

So `sendFire` returns whether anyone took the command and warns when nobody did,
and the two paths where a person is actively waiting — a question answer and a
plan decision — tell them instead of leaving the card to spin.

The other five callers are unchanged and now leave a log line, which is the part
that was missing when this was diagnosed.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/servers/api/chat/websocket.ts

@@ -1396,13 +1396,20 @@ function handlePlanDecision(
 ): void {
   const sessionId = wsToSessionMap.get(ws);
   if (!sessionId) return;
-  sidecar.decideClaudePlan({
+  const delivered = sidecar.decideClaudePlan({
     sessionKey: sessionId,
     userId: ws.data.userId,
     requestId: msg.requestId,
     approve: msg.approve,
     feedback: msg.feedback,
   });
+  // Same drop as `handleQuestionAnswer`, same spinning card — see `sendFire`.
+  if (!delivered) {
+    sendToClient(ws, {
+      type: 'error',
+      message: 'The agent is not connected right now, so that decision did not reach it. Try again in a moment.',
+    });
+  }
 }
 
 /**
@@ -1416,12 +1423,29 @@ function handlePlanDecision(
 function handleQuestionAnswer(ws: ServerWebSocket<WSData>, msg: { toolCallId: string; answer: string }): void {
   const sessionId = wsToSessionMap.get(ws);
   if (!sessionId) return;
-  sidecar.answerClaudeQuestion({
+  /*
+    A dropped answer has to reach the person who sent it.
+
+    `sendFire` does nothing when no sidecar is registered, and that window is real — every restart of this
+    process has one while the agent reconnects. The answer vanished with no log and no error, so the
+    question card spun on, which is indistinguishable from a slow agent. The only move left was to send
+    another message, which is the worst possible thing to do to a waiting tool call.
+
+    The agent's own handler already reports the failures it CAN see (no such session, question no longer
+    waiting). This is the one it cannot, because the command never arrives.
+  */
+  const delivered = sidecar.answerClaudeQuestion({
     sessionKey: sessionId,
     userId: ws.data.userId,
     toolCallId: msg.toolCallId,
     answer: msg.answer,
   });
+  if (!delivered) {
+    sendToClient(ws, {
+      type: 'error',
+      message: 'The agent is not connected right now, so that answer did not reach it. Try again in a moment.',
+    });
+  }
 }
 
 async function handleStop(ws: ServerWebSocket<WSData>): Promise<void> {

src/servers/sidecar-registry.ts

@@ -224,11 +224,28 @@ function sendCommand(kind: string, cmd: SidecarCommand, timeoutMs = DEFAULT_TIME
   });
 }
 
-function sendFire(kind: string, cmd: SidecarCommand): void {
+/**
+ * Fire a command at whichever sidecar handles this kind. Returns whether one was there to take it.
+ *
+ * It used to return void and drop the command when no sidecar was registered — no log, no error, nothing.
+ * That window is real and predictable: every `pm2 restart officer` has one while the sidecars reconnect, and
+ * a person clicking a button has no idea they are in it.
+ *
+ * The cost landed on `claude:question-answer`, whose own handler documents this exact failure and cannot
+ * report it, because the message never arrives to be reported. From the person's side the question card just
+ * kept spinning — indistinguishable from a slow agent, so the only move left was to send another message.
+ *
+ * Callers that can tell somebody are now able to. The boolean is the whole mechanism; the warning is for
+ * whoever reads the log afterwards wondering why one click did nothing.
+ */
+function sendFire(kind: string, cmd: SidecarCommand): boolean {
   const sc = findSidecarHandling(kind);
-  if (sc) {
+  if (!sc) {
-    sc.ws.send(JSON.stringify(cmd));
+    console.warn(`[sidecar] dropped ${cmd.type}: no sidecar registered for "${kind}"`);
+    return false;
   }
+  sc.ws.send(JSON.stringify(cmd));
+  return true;
 }
 
 function sendCommandToSidecar(
@@ -368,8 +385,8 @@ export function decideClaudePlan(params: {
   requestId: string;
   approve: boolean;
   feedback?: string;
-}): void {
+}): boolean {
-  sendFire('claude', { type: 'claude:plan-decision', id: nextId(), ...params });
+  return sendFire('claude', { type: 'claude:plan-decision', id: nextId(), ...params });
 }
 
 // The user's answer to an AskUserQuestion. Fire-and-forget for the same reason as the plan decision: the
@@ -380,8 +397,8 @@ export function answerClaudeQuestion(params: {
   userId: number;
   toolCallId: string;
   answer: string;
-}): void {
+}): boolean {
-  sendFire('claude', { type: 'claude:question-answer', id: nextId(), ...params });
+  return sendFire('claude', { type: 'claude:question-answer', id: nextId(), ...params });
 }
 
 /**