diff --git a/api/backups.ts b/api/backups.ts
index 851bb7b..629a4cb 100644
--- a/api/backups.ts
+++ b/api/backups.ts
@@ -113,16 +113,19 @@ export function checkHost(host: string): string {
 }
 
 /**
- * An absolute path on the far side.
+ * A directory on the far side, absolute or relative.
  *
- * This one IS interpreted by the remote shell — `ssh host mkdir -p /path` runs through it — so the
- * characters a shell would act on are refused rather than escaped. Refusing is checkable by reading it;
- * escaping is checkable by being right about every shell.
+ * RELATIVE IS NORMAL, and requiring a leading slash was simply wrong. `scp file host:db-backups/fofos/`
+ * lands under the remote account's home, which is what every ssh tool does and what anybody typing a
+ * destination expects — the home directory is the one place they are certain to be able to write.
+ *
+ * What is still refused: the characters a shell would act on. This value IS interpreted remotely —
+ * `ssh host mkdir -p <path>` runs through a shell — so they are rejected rather than escaped. Refusing
+ * is checkable by reading this function; escaping is checkable only by being right about every shell.
  */
 export function checkRemotePath(path: string): string {
   const trimmed = path.trim();
   if (!trimmed) throw new Error('A remote directory is required.');
-  if (!trimmed.startsWith('/')) throw new Error('The remote directory must be an absolute path.');
   if (/["'`$;&|<>()\\\s]/.test(trimmed)) {
     throw new Error('The remote directory may not contain spaces, quotes or shell characters.');
   }
diff --git a/web/BackupsRow.tsx b/web/BackupsRow.tsx
index a2674b7..1db5095 100644
--- a/web/BackupsRow.tsx
+++ b/web/BackupsRow.tsx
@@ -175,7 +175,7 @@ export const BackupsRow = () => {
             {configured && settings.sshHost ? (
               <span className="text-muted-foreground">
                 {' '}
-                → {settings.sshHost}:{settings.sshPath}
+                → {settings.sshHost}:{settings.sshPath?.startsWith('/') ? settings.sshPath : `~/${settings.sshPath}`}
               </span>
             ) : null}
           </p>
@@ -278,7 +278,7 @@ export const BackupsRow = () => {
               <Input
                 value={sshPath}
                 onChange={(event) => setSshPath(event.target.value)}
-                placeholder="/srv/backups/fofos"
+                placeholder="db-backups/fofos"
                 className="w-full font-mono text-xs"
                 autoComplete="off"
                 spellCheck={false}
@@ -296,7 +296,10 @@ export const BackupsRow = () => {
             </div>
             {/* No password field, and there will not be one: this runs with nobody at a terminal, so it
                 authenticates with the owner's SSH key and stores no credential of its own. */}
-            <p className="text-xs text-muted-foreground/70">Authenticated with this machine&rsquo;s SSH key.</p>
+            <p className="text-xs text-muted-foreground/70">
+              Authenticated with this machine&rsquo;s SSH key. A path without a leading slash is relative to
+              the remote home.
+            </p>
           </div>
 
           <div className="space-y-1">